When we come to this world, we are welcomed with open arms - open hearts as well. Unfortunately as we grow older the love gets on becoming conditional. As I am a 1985 born I felt during my BS last semesters I remember my mother expecting me to help her in kitchen, while I used to do my university work in late evening [IF SHE COULD COMMUNICATE IT CLEARLY WITH LOVE AND LETTING ME ORGANIZE MY SCHEDULE TO HELP HER OUT IN WORK]. One other thing I remember from that time is one day me and my mother was washing whole house, cleaning and everything. As some one hour was left in Aftar (breaking fast) when I looked or observed my father and brother they were not seeming out helping us out in food preparation work in kitchen. Islamically and on human grounds they could have helped us but unfortunately the gender labeled norms in our society make life stingy for all of us. During my BS (a four year program in university after FSc) our teacher told us when you turn 23 or cross 23, no one will ever ...